In her newly released memoir, The Woman in Me, singer Britney Spears revealed her regret at having an abortion 22 years ago. “To this day, it’s one of the most agonizing things I have ever experienced in my life,” she wrote.
“Spears’ situation is tragic yet not at all unique,” wrote Ruth Institute president, Dr. Jennifer Roback Morse, Ph.D. “Abortion regret is common, but kept quiet because it doesn’t fit the ‘abortion is fine all the time at all times with no consequences’ narrative the Sexual Revolution pushes.
Ruth Institute Research Associate, Fr. Paul Sullins, Ph.D., has studied the high prevalence of abortion-related mental health disorders. These include depression, anxiety disorder, PTSD, suicidality, and substance abuse behaviors. These risks are increased for women who wanted the child, as was the case for Spears.
“The pregnancy was a surprise, but for me, it wasn’t a tragedy,” Spears wrote. “But Justin [Timberlake, her then-boyfriend] definitely wasn’t happy. He said we weren’t ready to have a baby in our lives, that we were way too young.” She was 19. He was 20.
“If it had been left up to me alone, I never would have done it,” Spears said.
“That Spears was pressured to abort, is also sadly common,” Morse said. “Many women feel they don’t have a choice. Sometimes the pressure comes from a family member, but often it’s from the baby’s father, looking for an easy way out of responsibility.
“The Sexual Revolution has made abortion the failsafe when contraception fails, as it so often does. Yet, aside from the obvious death of an innocent baby, abortion does further and lasting damage to the mother who grieves the loss of the child she never had.”
“I’m sorry for Spears’ experience. I’m also grateful that she’s showing post-abortion syndrome is real. The naysayers will claim she was depressed before the abortion, despite her saying, ‘I loved Justin so much. I always expected us to have a family together one day. This would just be much earlier than I’d anticipated.’”
“That doesn’t sound like a depressed woman, but even if she was, doctors shouldn’t be performing abortions on women with mental health issues,” Morse noted.
“The ‘Shout your abortion’ movement is obscene. If abortion is so great, why the massive ad campaign to try to convince people of that?”
“I thank Ms. Spears for her candor. Though I’m sorry for her experience, I hope that by such a public figure coming forward to express her deep, lasting sadness, others will feel more comfortable doing the same.”
To learn more about the studies regarding post-abortion distress, see this Dr. J Show interview of Fr. Paul Sullins.
About the Ruth Institute
The Ruth Institute is a global non-profit organization, leading an international interfaith coalition to defend the family and build a civilization of love.
Jennifer Roback Morse has a Ph.D. in economics and has taught at Yale and George Mason University. She is the author of The Sexual State and Love and Economics – It Takes a Family to Raise a Village.
To schedule an interview with Dr. Morse, contact media@ruthinstitute.org.
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No one made Britney do it. We all have a choice and have to live with the consequences. She cannot blame Justin but she needs to take responsibility for her actions. I’ve never had an abortion, but I do have 8 children and have had 4 miscarriages. Were they all wanted at first? Probably not but it didn’t take long to fall in love with the child that was within me. I have been married 2 times. My first husband was emotionally abusive , sometimes physically, but I should never have married him. When I married again the marriage lasted 46 years. But he didn’t always want more children. My eldest didn’t want me to have more children, but ultimately it was my choice. And I always chose life. No matter how hard things got financially. I learned to be frugal. If Britney wouldn’t have been as “successful” in her career maybe it would have been better. Her career wasn’t something to emulate. If she’d had the baby perhaps she’d have been a more sedate person. Less “out there”. I’m sure if she has asked God for forgiveness He has given it. She just has to forgive herself now.
I considered abortion when my pregnant wife was told our by her Dr that our baby probably had Downs Syndrome.
I remember looking up abortion clinics. I felt despicable. I knew it was wrong. Disgusting. Looking to kill my own baby. We were lucky in the end; a better Dr pointed out that the other Dr had read a report incorrectly. I think the episode was me at my worst. Selfish. Uncaring. Sinful.