The Entertainment Media Establishment, Gossip Division, is reporting that
Taylor Swift gave her virginity to a man she thought was going to marry her. Three months later, she had a party for herself, and he didn’t show
up. This took place at Christmastime of 2010. I don’t know exactly why The Entertainment Media Establishment, Gossip Division is reporting
it now. Maybe Ms. Swift’s handlers issued a new press release about it, to drum up publicity. Or something. In any case, as the mother of a young
woman about the same age as Taylor, I find the whole story heartbreaking. Some of the media outlets have been down-right catty towards this now 24
year old young woman, over the years since she broke up with Jake. Philly.comcalls her the “Miss Goodie
Goodie of the pop community.” The Huffington Post admitted that “ for
her part, Swift is devastated,” but opined, “On the plus side, at least she’s got some new material for her next album.” Hollywood Life wants
to know: “What do YOU think HollywoodLifers? Is Taylor right to diss Jake again? Should she and Harry reunite?” The Entertainment Media Establishment, Gossip Division seems
indifferent to the fact that Taylor was 20 years old when this happened. She was and to some extent remains, a vulnerable young woman. I’m guessing
the authors of these catty columns about her are somewhat older than 20. She was “saving herself for marriage.” The guy convinced her to have
sex with him. Shortly after, he ditched her. Not mentioned in any of these stories: women tend to attach to their sex
partners. We experience a surge of a hormone called Oxytocin during sex. This hormone creates feelings of relaxation and connection. Men have fewer
oxytocin receptors than women. This is why women so often connect more strongly after a sexual encounter than men do. In fact, you could say that “casual
sex” is not even possible for women. We tend to connect to our sex partners, whether we mean to or not. The Sexual Revolution told us that men and
women are completely interchangeable. What men do, women are entitled to do. The Sexual Revolution told us that sex is no big deal, a sterile recreational
activity that doesn’t hurt anyone, as long as you use a condom. 
themselves to sleep over relationships that meant more to them than to the guy. As long as Taylor keeps cranking out the hit songs, no one really cares
about her and her feelings and her future ability to sustain relationships. I feel for this kid. I’m sorry if that sounds mother-hen-ish. But I can’t
help it. That is how I feel. You can read up on oxytocin in my book, Smart Sex: Finding Lifelong Love in a Hook-up World.
There Is No Such Thing As Transgender
November 20, 2024
There is no such thing as transgender. Why? Because it is biologically impossible to go from one sex to another.
