Remain in solidarity with the other person, especially when he or she is suffering or struggling. Love sits by the bedside, even when it is painful to
watch.
Be present and available to your spouse when they are going through a challenging time. It might be frustrating to listen to your spouse complain.
It might be sad to watch them in pain. Sometimes we feel helpless because we want to DO something. But remember: your presence communicates to both
of you, your commitment to the relationship. That is Tip #3 from 101 Tips for a Happier Marriage.